Children need to know that they are worthy

In the beloved children's classic, “Matilda,” a young girl goes on adventures largely allowed because her parents almost don't seem to know she exists. She experiences bullying from her teachers, a neglectful home life that ignores her talents, and criticism from her loved ones even when she has done something fabulous. While “Matilda” is a somewhat exaggerated case, we've all been treated to some of her experiences. For most of us, those experiences often end in low self esteem instead of fun adventures.

Children are developing their own ideas of self-worth and how the role model adults in their life view them is going to have a big impact. Low self-esteem and low self-worth will carry on into adulthood. It will add stress to the child’s life… both now and as an adult. It can lead to serious mental and medical problems.

 In order for our children to grow into happy, healthy adults, self-worth is as important as food, shelter and medical care. It is important in the home and in the classroom. Keep an eye on all of the adults in your child’s life, including yourself. When someone tries to make your child feel worthless, talk that person and to your child. If your child is pointing out that maybe you're doing the same things, listen, and make an effort to change.

Your child may get bullied for being too fat, having unusual features, or behavior quirks that catches other kid's eyes. While you can't control other people, you can keep an eye out for these problems, and let your child know that no matter what, they still have self worth. Even if your child rolls their eyes and hurries off to their room, knowing how you feel about it will go a long way to giving them the confidence they'll need later in life.

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Children need to know they are worthy.